The Good GirlTax

Your grace is holy. And it has a price.

You have spent years giving grace, understanding, time, emotional labor, second chances, and the benefit of the doubt without ever counting the cost.

The Good Girl Tax is a faith-based forensic audit of what happens when generosity becomes expected, grace goes unacknowledged, and softness begins to cost you everything.

This is not a book about becoming harder. It is a book about recognizing what you give, naming what it costs, and learning to give from freedom instead of obligation.

How this book began

At some point I realized I was not just journaling anymore.

Last year and the beginning of this year gave me a lot to sit with. For two quarters I felt led to move differently. Quieter. More still. More intentional about letting the Holy Spirit lead me instead of rushing to understand everything.

I never stopped creating. I was quietly filling journal pages with what the Holy Spirit was putting in me, pulling out of me, correcting in me, and helping me see differently. Patterns. Questions. Convictions. Things I needed to release. Things I needed to stop carrying. Things I had normalized for years without ever really examining.

I was auditing my life. And somewhere in those pages, The Good Girl Tax was born.

That is why this one feels different to me. I was creating things to serve other women while God was quietly doing a deeper work in me too.